Friday, August 01, 2008

tips how to control your emotions


Tips how to control your emotions

This would give you guide on how to control your emotions towards your better-half, friends, officemates and all the people around you, especially your "boss". The rules of practicing "ugaling langit, ugaling kaaya-aya" :

#1 Ang naunang magalit ang may karapatang magalit. Pag naunahan ka na ng galit niya, tumahimik ka na lang muna.

#2 Walang taong nag-aaway mag-isa. Pag hindi kayo sumagot o pumatol, titigil din daw ang taong nakikipag- away sa inyo.

#3Ang taong galit, 'bingi.' If someone is angry, wala raw pinakikinggan, so, don't try to explain and fight back. Hindi ka niya iintindihin dahil wala siyang naririnig kundi ang sarili nya.

#4 Ang taong galit, 'abnoy.' Ayon sa pastor, Biblical daw ito? because the Lord said when He was crucified, "Father, patawarin mo sila dahil hindi nila alam ang kanilang ginagawa." Modern term for these kinds of people are abnoys, so you better not get angry para huwag kang matawag na abnoy.

You should also know and realize that the persons who make your day bad are jewels, because you need them for you to mature. Hangga't andyan daw sila at kinaiinisan mo, ibig sabihin, immature ka pa. God will not take away those people; it's for you to take away your bad feelings towards them. You'll know na mature ka na pag dumating 'yung time na hindi ka na naiinis sa mga taong ito because you have learned to accept them and to have patience with them.

#5 Finally, the best part of this is to tell yourself na, because of this person,"I will grow mature," DAHIL SA CONTRIBUTION NIYA SA MATURITY MO, KUKUNIN DIN SYA NI LORD!

8 meow:

reyna elena said...

hahaha sinu kaaway mo 'day?! hahahah

diwatang_byaning said...

Hmmm may Doring ka? Hmmm kala ko ikaw ang Doring sa work ninyo? Bwahahahha!

Joy said...

Saan daw galing ang tips na yan? Personal experience?

joy
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pusa said...

@reyna elena - wiz mama, hehehe kelangan lang pangtaklob kay ka pepe kaya post ko yan forwarded email hehehe

@diwata - trulala little doring itetch jowk lang pow

@joy - musta na? hehehe galing sa isang bugnot na tao ang gumawa nyan at naforward sa email ko hehehe

prinsesamusang said...

i agree, bingi nga talaga, siguro kasi pag galit ang isang tao subconscious nya yung gumagana, basta masabi na ang kahit ano. tapos pag di na galit magsisisi. lol

Rebecca said...

cool tips! wag na maki-pag away ;)

btw, salamat sa pag-kamusta--ok lang naman ako. I hope ok ka din pinaka-magandang pusa. meow ^,,^

Kyels said...

Hey hey!

I'm back now. My computer died and had no chance to check any sites until I bought my replacement machine.

:D

pusa said...

@prinsesamusang - korekness ka jan, salamat sa pagdaan :)

@rebecca - honga make love not war! :D buti naman oki ka lang

@kyels - welcome back!!! buti me kapalit na ang iyong pyuter :D

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